On Saturdays I visit my mother-in-law. We moved her to Ludington not very long ago to have her closer to us. It used to be a 3 hour drive to go see her and now it’s a half hour or less. She’s only been in the memory care unit for a few weeks and she’s still trying to adjust.
Sometimes she’s feeling pretty good about things. But a lot of times she’s depressed. She knows her memory is failing and she doesn’t know anyone in the new place. It’s hard on her. Steve and I come see her 3-4 times a week.
Last Saturday I took her for a drive. We went to the beach and then to the boat landing by the river. Then we went back to the memory care place and worked on a jigsaw puzzle for a while. She got sleepy and decided to take a nap.
I sat on the floor in her room, waiting for her to nod off. She said, “You’ll be gone when I wake up.” I explained that I would be back again soon, that her son would be coming to visit in two days.
“You guys sure take good care of me,” she said.
“That’s because we love you,” I said.
“I love you, too.” she said.
“I know.”
“How do you know that?”
“Because you tell me all the time.”
“How do you know I’m telling the truth?”
“You have an honest face.”
That seemed to satisfy her. She leaned back and closed her eyes. I waited until I knew she was asleep and then left.
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